Later down the line I fantasized about it as an easier option, to just walk away from the months of heartbreak that followed, the hard conversations that kept recurring, the mental comparison your brain flirts with and you have to conquer. Of course I know myself, and from friends sharing their experiences, that is there is no easy choice, and for some there is no choice at all.
The reality is marriage and long term partnerships can be hard, and infidelities are a surprisingly common occurrence. As I went through the healing process I realized I couldn't hear the voices of the women who chose to dig in and sort through the hard stuff.
I did wonder at the time how women in the public eye, whose partners were rumored to have strayed, got through it under the scrutiny. I understand why they wouldn’t share intimate details, but hearing those voices as a shared experience, might have helped me or at the least made me feel less isolated as I navigated the emotional upheaval. It’s why I’m appreciative of Victoria Beckham's candid acknowledgement of how hard that time in their life was and how they’ve worked through it.
So to the cynics who have accused them of revealing it all now, to boost authenticity for Brand Beckham, I say try to live this experience even without the media spotlight and see how you fare.
I also know from personal experience the healing process takes time, it took me over a year of intense and often uncomfortable therapy to deal with all my emotions, to be honest with myself and also my partner. It took me five years to be able to tell others about our experience to have the space from the intensity of the heartache and ability to discuss it without breaking down.
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